Introduction
We've been married for ten years. We love being an aunt and uncle to our nieces and nephews. We have been through the roller coaster of fertility options and are glad we explored those avenues. We now know that our children will come to us through adoption.
The purpose of our blog is for you to get to know us and to get word out that we are looking to adopt in the hope someone we know knows someone who is pregnant and considering
placing the child for adoption, and then refer them to us.
To the expectant parent, I don't know you or how you found yourself looking at this blog, faced with this decision to place or parent your baby. But I do know that you are a strong and amazing person for even considering adoption. God knows you and loves you. With His help and your faith I know you will be guided to make the choices that will be best for you and your baby. Know that we pray for you without yet knowing who you are.
Adoption is such a personal and unique experience for all involved and is different for each case. I believe the specifics of adoption are between the people involved and not for the general public. We do have a letter for you that has more information about us, our ideas on parenting, our families, our open adoption plans, and where you fit in. We want to get to know you and in doing so we can discuss more openly what adoption looks like to each of us.
Thank you for taking the time to look at our blog. I hope you will be able to get to know us through our posts. If you want to read our expectant parent letter please email us at jewelstewart@gmail.com and we will send you a copy.
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Wednesday, December 18, 2013
Ray's Mom's birthday
So I told my Mom we'd buy them tickets to the "Savior of the World" program at the theater in the conference center. We arranged a double date for her birthday and agreed to meet at The Cheesecake Factory. I then realized that everyone else in the family may want to come since this is Mom's 60th birthday. All the Utah siblings agreed to meet at the restaurant by 5:30 and we didn't tell Mom that the rest of them were coming. Julie and I got there at 5, assuming that 5 is pretty early for a dinner so we would have no trouble getting a table for ten people within 30 minutes. Nope...we were wrong.
We were told they couldn't seat a party of ten at all and the best they could do is seating us completely separately in two parties, which ruins the surprise of having almost the whole family there. AAAhh! So I scrambled the best I could. I walked over to Brio, an Italian place almost next door to The Cheesecake Factory and they had room for a party of ten almost immediately because they were still not yet on a wait. So Julie and I called the siblings and I called Dad, who didn't break and tell Mom what was really going on (well done Dad!). He just told her that The Cheesecake Factory was already on too long of a wait and we were switching restaurants. (the whole reason we were going to The Cheesecake Factory was my parents had a gift card....oh well) So Julie and I get seated as Myla and Mike walk in. Melissa and Vince got there next and told us that they rode on the train into Salt Lake and Mom and Dad were on the same car as them! Dad saw Melissa and Vince and stood in front of Mom so she couldn't see them as they passed right in front of her, using the 11 inches in height advantage above her. Melissa and Vince then ran to the restaurant and arrived catching their breath to make sure they got to the table first.
When Mom finally walked in she did a proper double-take and her jaw dropped to see all of us there. We don't surprise her often because we know she enjoys planning and anticipating things as much as the event itself but this was perfect. Sadly we got the camera out a little too late to properly catch her lower jaw down at her knees. One of the picture did catch her as she was pointing to Melissa learning they were on the same train. The switch in restaurants was perfect and my Dad made sure to thank the manager for the incredible server and experience we all had, especially while accommodating us at he last minute and the fact that we spilled drinks on the table...twice.
-Ray
Sunday, December 15, 2013
Thanksgiving In Disneyland
We had a family trip to Disneyland planned for Christmas with the whole family on my side. Then my brother Nick got a new job and was unable to get time off to go and my mom got sick and now has to be on oxygen at night and she didn't want to bother with that on vacation. So that left us and Jennifer (my sister) and Kaitlynn (niece), except Ray would have to fly back home to go to work on Christmas Eve... We decided to cancel the trip all together so we could still spend Christmas as a family. Then Jennifer and I were talking at lunch one day and we were both kind of sad that we were no longer going. So we looked at the school schedule and decided just the three of us would go for Thanksgiving instead.
Jennifer, Kaitlynn and I headed to California on the Tuesday before Thanksgiving, we stayed in Las Vegas that night and took Kaitlynn to the M&M store Wednesday before finishing the drive. Ray's Uncle Bill and Aunt Paula let us stay at their house (while they were visiting Utah for Thanksgiving)so we were able to save some money on lodging. We spent one day at California Adventure and two days at Disneyland. Jennifer had an "agenda" all planned out for us so we could make sure to do the things we wanted to do while at the parks. We did pretty good on time in the mornings riding all of the rides we wanted to, but by the afternoon the parks got so busy the lines were too long to bother waiting in. So we enjoyed the shows and other activities. My favorite part was the Animation Academy at California Adventure where we learned how to draw Mickey Mouse and I really liked World of Color. We also decorated Christmas Cookies with Mrs. Claus and got to see some of the characters in their holiday wear. The Christmas Parade was fun to watch also. It rained on our first day at Disneyland so we got some ponchos at the gas station on the way there. We had a lot of fun together!
Sunday we went to the beach and walked around before our long drive home on Monday.
Since it was Thanksgiving I thought I would share some things I am thankful for:
I am thankful that I have a good relationship with my family and that we enjoy spending time together
I am thankful that we had a safe trip
I am thankful that I have an amazing husband who loves me
~Julie~
Friday, November 15, 2013
10 Years
A lot can happen in 10 years: 6 addresses 1 mortgage 2 new (used) cars 2 cruises 1 trip to Lake Tahoe 1 family trip to Disneyland 1 Disneyland trip just the 2 of us 2 MLB games 1 dog 10 neices 5 nephews 4 funerals (grandparents/ great-grandparents) 2 siblings weddings A lot more fun and exciting things to come and there is no one I would rather do this with! ~Julie
Got Cake?
I make cakes for family & friends. Here are a few that I did this summer. The skeleton skull I made for my work Halloween party. The dumptruck was for a little boy in my ward who turned 5. Next is a graduation cake I made for my cousin who graduated from Spanish Fork High. Then the 80th birthday cake for Ray's grandma (done with the help of my sister-in-law Naomi and Melissa helped with the flowers)
I did these cupcakes for my cousins wedding with the help of my sister Jennifer, neice Kaitlynn, Ray, and some neighbors that let me use their fridge to store the finished ones in before the wedding. Thanks! 265 Cupcakes and a 6" round top to cut.
~Julie
Monday, October 7, 2013
We took a day trip to Moab and Arches National Park on Labor Day. The day was quite an adventure. We (Ray) got pulled over twice for going 5 mph over on the way down to Moab and drove away without a ticket both times. We took on some of the less challenging hikes and vowed to come back leaner and ready to conquer the hike up to Delicate Arch. With a little planning and a healthy amount of luck we managed to avoid the big tour groups and buses around the park. Weather was perfect at the park and then we drove through torrential downpour on the way home. Overall it was the perfect blend of peaceful and adrenaline filled moments. It was exactly the little getaway we needed!
Ray
Ray
Monday, September 30, 2013
About Julie
Julie grew up with a love of camping and fishing and was often the lone girl on the fishing trips. She enjoys spending time with family playing games, having summer BBQ's, or just hanging out. We met in the glamor of the local 7-Eleven where I worked nights. I quickly realized she was the kind of girl I want to marry because being around her made me want to be a better person. I think she has that affect on a lot of people.
I am in awe of Julie around children. She has an innate sense of what a child needs to feel special and loved. She's currently the primary president in our ward and she puts her whole self into her calling. She loves the children and worries about the ones who need a little extra love just like they were all our own kids. From the time we were dating I knew that Julie's greatest desire was to be a mom. Even when she worked at a daycare taking care of 2 year old kids all day she would come home and just want to have her own. Ray
I am in awe of Julie around children. She has an innate sense of what a child needs to feel special and loved. She's currently the primary president in our ward and she puts her whole self into her calling. She loves the children and worries about the ones who need a little extra love just like they were all our own kids. From the time we were dating I knew that Julie's greatest desire was to be a mom. Even when she worked at a daycare taking care of 2 year old kids all day she would come home and just want to have her own. Ray
About Ray
Ray was born in California and his family moved to Michigan when he was 9 years old which is where he grew up. He moved to Utah to attend BYU and we met while he was working at the 7 Eleven near my house. The thing I like most about Ray is his great sense of humor. He is always ready with a clever remark and is good at lightening the mood when things get too serious. He is a fun person to be around.
Ray is very talented. He is an amazing cook and loves experimenting in the kitchen. He has a great singing voice and played the trumpet in high school and in the BYU marching band.
Ray is the most selfless person I know. He is always concerned about how other people are doing and what he can do to help. He enjoys spending time with our neices and nephews and is always looking for teaching moments with them.
~Julie
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